enter site Personality, which is such a huge factor in attraction, tends not to change drastically.
Shy people stay shy. Outgoing people stay outgoing.
Tortured artists, power-hungry maniacs, sports bros — they tend not to become drastically different people. Very happy for you.
But you still might be facing an uphill battle here. Well, asking your friend out in an appropriate fashion is really really hard. What this means is that the best you can do is have a hideously awkward conversation. At which point, she either expresses joyful surprise, or cautious curiosity, or apologetic repulsion. And either your friendship gets taken to another level, or it gets killed off, or it somehow survives the awkwardness.
I don't know what the hell I'm doing. My boyfriend and I have been friends for 4 years really close friends, like hang out every day and we started dating almost a year ago. Hands down the best relationship I've ever had.
So much happy compromising because we both respect each other so much and want each other to be happy. We also can super easily tell when the other is uncomfortable or unhappy. It's scary but exhilarating to be an open book to him.
It's really important to be passionately into them though. I was fiercely attracted to him during our whole friendship, so now it's like a whole bunch of pent up affection. If you wouldn't say you're nuts about her or could allow yourself to feel nuts about her it's not worth it. I told her my feelings after they had consumed me for a few weeks.
We'd been friends for about a year. She told me she felt the same way. Then we had an awkward day of painting furniture and trying to avoid the elephant in the room. Then she went in her room and called me in about ten minutes later. She was wearing lingerie and then we had sex. If you're talking about it anyway, just do it.
You already know you care about each other.
Been together for a year now, and were mates although not really close for a few years before that. There's a girl that I've been close friends with since forever, and we transitioned into a FWB arrangement for a while. But she developed feelings for me, and I didn't want a relationship with her she's not at all what I look for in a relationship , so I stopped with the "benefits".
I really don't get why this isn't a more normal thing to do. Do not make posts asking about a specific person's or group of people's actions, behavior, or thinking. Maybe you do a Chris Pratt and radically change your physique. Eventually when you both go out on a date, your partner will be sure to notice a very marked improvement in your appearance and thus be open to thinking of you in a sexual way. I told her my feelings after they had consumed me for a few weeks. Sex to SAVE the friendship. You can follow him on Twitter See more articles written by Michael Middleton.
Do not insult or troll people, including in PMs. The title of your post must contain your actual, concise question.
While your friend may always have been there to console you after a messy break-up, they might not have been there for all of the bad times with your ex-partner. One of the biggest advantages to dating a friend is that they already know your bad habits — and you know theirs! If, after all of that, they still want to be not only your best friend but your partner too, you could be onto something really special…. Celebrate it together — it may just have made your best friend your soul mate.
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